When Dreams Don't Come True

Have you ever had a really big dream? One you wanted so bad it became an obsession? One you thought would have a chain reaction of nothing but good? Put EVERYTHING you had into that dream?

Believed with all your heart it was a "worthy" cause? Put a time limit on your recieving your dream, and then it didn't come true?

If you are like me, you have. And then your left asking yourself, what went wrong? What do I do now?

When you think you finally have it all figured out... A hard lesson comes at you so hard and fast you don't know what hit you!

I have been studying self-help for a while now, and the more I read and study the more information it leads to. Then when it all starts contradicting... you are Lost for the truth.

I have asked the questions... and as the universe works... I am getting answers! But, it is "MY" job to see what answers are Truth and what are just someone taking advantage of people that want to find their way. I know, to fulfill my passion I want to Help, Give, Fix or Make something better for the future.

To do that, I am expanding my knowledge of how things work and just what I can do. I, personally think this is my most inspired journey so far. Going to the base of everything, learning how we are all connected. And how our thoughts become things, how living Happily in each moment brings you more of the same... Like Attracts Like!

It was in this mass of information I was attracted to that I tried to 'Wish" something into exsistence. My really Big Dream. No matter what you read, it just isn't that simple! I do realize many of my mistakes now, after seeking more information. But, I still have a long way to go before, I can say... I Got IT! And I do realize that there is always something you can do NOW to head you in the direction of your desired destination.

I also know to Never give up on your passion!

Each roadblock you encounter is just strengthening that area of your road that needed worked on! You fix it and move on forward. I once read somewhere that success is on the other side of failure! For the ones that wouldn't stop because someone said it was impossible, or just plain never gave up!

I've been knocked in the dirt more times than I can count trying to follow my dreams. But, each time I do get back up and back in pursuit... I feel stronger than ever from the experience! I'm not going to lie here and tell you it was easy, because some of those falls took me out for quite a while. But, I still haven't given up and have got back on my feet every time. Because it means that much to me to accomplish them.

The Point of my story is to tell you... there are ways to get exactly what you dream of... if you find the right information and guides. And, it all links us together!!! So; if everyone linked their love, peace, harmony, joy and laughter together... imagine the wonderful world we would be able to create for our children and on down the line.

Never stop dreaming! Never stop chasing your dreams! If it didn't work out the way "you" thought it should, try looking at it in a different perspective and be like the people who make all their dreams come true... Just Never Give Up!

I am just a average person, like you...I just happened to write down the things that were happening to me, and then started to question, and that attracted me to answers...I just want to share what I've learned! And hopefully impact someone else's life in some way.

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Being Truly Happy

Are you happy with who, what, or where you are today? Are you having fun? Are you enjoying your career? Are you excited about your future? Are you living your life to the fullest?
Most of us are searching for something, or sometime in the future when we will finally be happy. We tell ourselves that if we can only get to "that place," then our lives will be perfect.
So what will it take for you to be happy? Will it be the bigger house, the new car, getting a new job, etc.? When will you stop running and enjoy what you have today? The search for happiness is internal. Sure, they may make you smile initially, but the emptiness will not go away.
So, how can you be happy today?

1. Accept That You Deserve To Be Happy.
   If you don't think that you deserve to be happy, then no wonder you're not. The messages you give yourself determine what direction your life will take. If you are telling yourself that you are unworthy or don't deserve happiness, then how can you expect to be happy?
   
2. Accept Who You Are.
   Being happy today is accepting who you are; the good, the bad and the ugly. It's knowing that you are doing the best you can do, and being content with that. I'm not saying to ignore what you'd like to improve in your life, but if you only see what's missing, you lose out on "loving" what's great about you.
   
3. Be Comfortable Where You Are.
   Being happy today means being comfortable where you are in the present, not where you would like to be in the future. It's about being in awe for the opportunity to learn something new each day. You don't know what your life will bring tomorrow, so you might as well enjoy where you are today.
   
4. Appreciate Your Life.
   
   Being happy today means being grateful for your life. Whether it's being grateful for having your health, a job, a place to live, food everyday, or a family that loves you. If you knew that you were going to die in 90 days, would you do things differently? Guess what? You are going to die one day, and you don't know if you even have 90 days. Gratitude, not blame will give you happiness and freedom.
   
5. Ask For Help.
   Being happy means not keeping your problems to yourself. It also means that you ask for support when you need it, and let others contribute to your life. Most of us don't ask for help because we don't want to burden the people around us. But, if someone asked you for assistance, wouldn't you lend a helping hand? Then why wouldn't you let others do the same for you?
   
6. Do Something Nice For Someone Else.
   Being happy today is doing something nice for someone else. This could be as simple as holding the door for the person behind you, or as big as volunteering your time to your favorite charity. Your problems become smaller when you are not always thinking about them. When you take the focus off yourself, it is easier to see how great your life really is.
   
7. Do Something That Will Move You Forward.
   Being happy is taking steps that will move you forward. Movement keeps you from feeling like a victim. When you're unhappy, formulating a plan puts you in a different place and helps change your perspective. It also put the power back in your hands!
   
   So, what is it going to take to have you be happy today? How much more of your life do you want to live waiting for "someday" to bring you the happiness you crave? It's up to you to create your own happiness. It's up to you to create a life filled with joy rather than sorrow. Why not choose a life filled with happiness today?

I believe that

Courage is a hard thing to figure. You can have courage based on a dumb idea or mistake. But you're not supposed to question adults or your couch or teacher because they make the rules. Maybe they know best but maybe they don't. It all depends on who you are, where you come from.That's why courage is tricky. Should you always do what others tell you to do? Sometimes you might not even know why you're doing something. I mean fool can have courage. But honor, that's the real reason you either do something or you don't. It's who you are and maybe who you want to be. If you die trying for something important then you have both honour and courage and that's pretty good.